Tips On How To Pick Your First Dance Song
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Tips On How To Pick Your First Dance Song
Choosing your first dance song is such a different experience for every couple. For some couples, they already have “their song” and that’s what they go with. For others, it can be a bit more challenging to pick the perfect tune to dance to as newlyweds. For those needing a few pointers, here are some helpful tips on how you and your partner can go about picking your first dance song!
Find A Common Musical Interest.
You and your fiance may have many things in common, but may not share the exact same taste in music. This is a pretty common situation amongst couples. Perhaps you really love soft rock while your partner prefers listening to country. Try to narrow down which music genres you both like and then go from there. This also serves as good practice in finding common ground!
Look For Lyrics That Are Meaningful To Your Relationship.
Take some time to think about the important moments that define your love story, then find a song that has lyrics that speak to your relationship. Was it love at first sight? Were there some unexpected circumstances in your relationship? Was it long distance? Look for a song that speaks to the emotions and special memories in your relationship. It makes it so much more meaningful when you can relate to the content of the song.
Pick Something Sentimental.
Think about whether there is a particular song or band that is meaningful to your relationship. What songs stick out to you? Perhaps it was the song playing on the radio when you had your first kiss. Or your favorite song at the concert you went to together. Using something sentimental for your first dance will make it extra special.
Consider The Melody And Rhythm Of The Song.
Since you’ll be dancing along to this song at your reception, it’s important to consider choosing a song that you’re comfortable dancing to. Typically, slow dancing works best to certain rhythms. However, feel free to go for an upbeat song if you’re planning on dancing a more fast-paced dance! You can even ask your DJ for their thoughts on increasing or decreasing the tempo on the song so that it’s easier to dance to.
Decide If You Want To Go Classic Or Contemporary.
You may want to ask yourself whether you’d like to go with a traditional song or something a bit more contemporary. Classics never go out of style, but some couples feel they’re a bit too formal or overused at weddings. Instead, they may search for a nontraditional song that better suits their more contemporary taste in music. It’s truly personal preference so you cannot go wrong either way.
Consider A Cover Of Your Favorite Song.
Make your first dance song seem one-of-a-kind by looking for covers of the song. Many hit songs have great covers or even beautiful instrumentalist versions you can find on music streaming services. Picking a cover can help a popular song seem fresh and different.
Ask A Talented Friend To Perform.
If you’re still having trouble finding the perfect song to play, consider having a musically talented friend or family member perform a song that you like. It’s a great creative way to make sure that your first dance is unique and unforgettable for you and your guests.